You already know the answer





A few years ago, I decided to listen to my intuition. It was when I quit my job, and I gained self-confidence each time I listened to your inner voice. You find that seeking outsider validation is less important than it once was. Because you, my dear, already know the answer. When I was brought to this earth, I had a purpose: to live and to have experiences. Each of us has a different way we want to experience life, and my way is different from yours. Yet when I ask someone a question about my way of life, of course, I will get an answer that does not align with my values, ethics, or method of living. Then, if you already question yourself, you will allow the opinion of someone who does not understand you to give you poor advice. Trust me, you already know the answer to your question, so why ask? We seek validation; we want others to tell us it is a good idea; instead, you will get the opposite, and then when you change your mind or do not do what you want, they will still judge you. Ask you ¨so why did you not do that thing¨? Mainly, their opinion affected you, but you do not say this; instead, you make up a lie, ¨the timing was off¨, I remember what you said¨, ¨it was too hard¨. We all do this all the time; at least, I did for most of my adult life until I decided enough was enough. Mainly because I began trusting my intuition, even if it did not end as I expected; I went after it tried, learned a lesson, and, more importantly, grew from the experience.