“Stop this Situationship Madness” campaign
I managed to escape a short-term situationship by dumping him right exactly when I saw it developing into a long-term & complicated one. “Situationship has become an acceptable relationship status” according to tinder, referring to other articles I’ve read. He even introduced me to his friends without warning, yet, he still believed that he didn’t want to be in a relationship & I was being disrespectful for opening that topic. He didn’t expect that I was dumping him that same night, me neither. He got mad, I still tried to be compassionate. So bless his heart to take the journey in healing from whatever the reason he is engaging into this. Was I dramatic? Yes, but I was sorry & still chose to let go. I also had to go through grieving process as well. It didn’t feel good. Guilt & shame was there with me too. Some cannot avoid casual encounters. If you like the person after the third sex, why not decide to go on a date & start a meaningful relationship leading into something organic & healthy? Why keep contacting & asking for the same thing that leads to nothing? Women (maybe few good men as well) should stop tolerating situationships after hitting their limits(hopefully not more than 3 month mark). I have the impression that they mostly benefit men. This is a public mental health issue that I believe should not be ignored.
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